Kissing Face With Closed Eyes Emoji
U+1F61A:kissing_closed_eyes:About Kissing Face With Closed Eyes ๐
Kissing Face With Closed Eyes () is part of the Smileys & Emotion group in Unicode. Added in Unicode E0.6. Type on GitHub and Slack to use it. Click copy above to grab it, paste it anywhere.
Works in iMessage, WhatsApp, Discord, Slack, Instagram, Twitter, Gmail, and every app that supports Unicode.
Often associated with 143, bae, blush, and 12 more keywords.
Meaning varies across cultures, see cultural notes below.
Scroll down for the full story: meaning, trends, combos, and more.
How it looks
What does it mean?
A yellow face with closed eyes, rosy cheeks, and puckered lips giving a kiss. This is the tender one. The closed eyes are what make ๐ different from every other kissing emoji. You close your eyes when you mean it.
There's actual science behind this. In 2016, researchers Sandra Murphy and Polly Dalton at Royal Holloway, University of London, published a study in the Journal of Experimental Psychology showing that visual processing competes with tactile sensitivity. When your brain is busy processing what your eyes see, it loses ability to process touch. We close our eyes while kissing because shutting out visual input leaves more mental resources to focus on the physical sensation. ๐ is the emoji that captures this: eyes closed because the kiss matters enough to feel fully.
๐ was part of Unicode 6.0 (2010), arriving alongside ๐ (the winking heart-blower). While ๐ became the go-to romantic kiss (70-92 on Google Trends), ๐ settled into a quieter role at 11-16. It's more intimate but less popular, which tracks: real intimacy is quieter than performative affection. ๐ blows a kiss to a crowd. ๐ kisses one person with its eyes closed.
๐ is the goodnight kiss emoji. The "thinking of you" kiss. The "I'm too shy to say I love you so here's a blushing kiss instead" emoji. The rosy cheeks add a layer of vulnerability that ๐ doesn't have. ๐ winks (confident, outgoing). ๐ blushes (tender, slightly nervous).
In practice, ๐ gets used most often between people who are already close: established couples, best friends, family members. It doesn't work well as a first move because it's too intimate. Sending ๐ to someone you just met is like going in for a kiss on the lips during a handshake. The closed eyes presuppose a level of trust that hasn't been established yet.
SweetyHigh notes an interesting gender difference: ๐ from a guy tends to read as a straightforward romantic smooch, while ๐ from a girl is more likely to be playful and friendly. This isn't universal, but it reflects a pattern where women use affectionate emojis more casually across relationships while men reserve them for romantic contexts.
The emoji also works as a sign-off. "Night ๐" is warmer than "Night ๐" and less performative than "Night ๐." The closed eyes give it a settling-in quality, like someone drifting off to sleep after a goodnight kiss.
A tender, intimate kiss. The closed eyes signal genuine feeling (neuroscience shows we close our eyes while kissing because visual processing competes with tactile sensitivity). The rosy cheeks signal an involuntary blush. Together, they create the most intimate kissing emoji: a face that's physically experiencing the kiss, not just performing one.
The Kiss Family on Five Axes
๐ Sentiment: The Most Tested Kiss
What it means from...
Strong signal. ๐ from a crush is more intimate than ๐ because the closed eyes suggest vulnerability. They're not just sending a kiss, they're closing their eyes for it. That's trust. If a crush sends ๐, they're comfortable enough with you to be tender rather than just flirty.
The natural home for ๐. Partners use it for goodnight kisses, thinking-of-you moments, and quiet affection. It's less flashy than ๐ but more meaningful. The blushing cheeks add warmth. This is the Tuesday-night kiss, not the first-date kiss.
Close friends only. ๐ between friends signals deep platonic love, the kind of friendship where you're comfortable with physical affection. It works for birthday messages, gratitude, or "I missed you." Less common than ๐ or ๐ between friends because the closed eyes feel intimate.
Sweet and tender. A parent sending ๐ to a child, or a grandparent to a grandchild, reads as pure warm affection. The blush and closed eyes make it feel like a real goodnight kiss. This is ๐'s second-most natural context after romantic relationships.
Flirty or friendly?
Leans romantic. ๐ is more intimate than any other kissing emoji except ๐ (which is physically sexual). The closed eyes + rosy cheeks combination signals vulnerability and genuine feeling. It can be friendly between very close friends, but the default reading is romantic or deeply affectionate. If someone sends ๐ who doesn't usually use affectionate emojis, pay attention.
Romantic, leaning intimate. The closed eyes + blush combination signals vulnerability and real feeling. It can be friendly between very close friends, but the default reading is romantic. If someone sends ๐ who doesn't usually use affectionate emojis, it likely carries weight.
Usually a direct romantic gesture. Guys tend to use ๐ less casually than girls do. If a guy sends ๐, he's being tender and genuine. It carries more emotional weight than ๐ (which can be casual or flirty). The closed eyes and blush suggest he means it.
Could be romantic or playfully affectionate. Girls tend to use kissing emojis more casually across relationships. ๐ from a girl might be a sweet, playful gesture to a close friend or a tender romantic signal to a partner. Context and relationship history are the keys.
Emoji combos
Origin story
The four kissing faces in Unicode tell a story about what the standard's designers thought people wanted.
Unicode 6.0 (2010) included two kissing faces: ๐ (winking with a heart, confident and outgoing) and ๐ (closed eyes with rosy cheeks, tender and intimate). Both are romantic. Both presuppose a close relationship. The committee apparently assumed that if you're sending a kiss emoji, it's because you're in love.
Two years later, Unicode 6.1 (2012) added ๐ (open eyes, no extras) and ๐ (smiling eyes). These are the friendly, platonic kisses. The afterthoughts.
What makes ๐ specific is the combination of closed eyes AND rosy cheeks. The closed eyes reference the neuroscience of kissing: we close our eyes during a real kiss because our brains can't process both visual input and tactile sensation simultaneously. The rosy cheeks reference the physiological blush response, when blood rushes to the face during moments of emotional arousal. Together, they create a face that's physically experiencing the kiss, not just performing one.
๐ blows a kiss outward (it's projecting affection). ๐ absorbs a kiss inward (it's receiving or savoring affection). The difference between broadcasting love and feeling love.
Approved in Unicode 6.0 (2010) as KISSING FACE WITH CLOSED EYES. Added to Emoji 1.0 in 2015. Part of the original kissing batch alongside ๐ (). The plain ๐ and ๐ (smiling eyes) kissing faces arrived two years later in Unicode 6.1 (2012). This means the most intimate kissing face was standardized before the most casual one, suggesting the committee prioritized romance over friendliness.
Around the world
Kiss emoji usage varies significantly by culture. A 2022 study in Intercultural Pragmatics found that Spanish WhatsApp users include kissing emojis in conversation closings far more frequently than German users. This mirrors physical greeting customs: cheek kissing is standard in Spain but less common in Germany.
The closed-eyes element of ๐ carries different weight in different cultures. In Japanese culture, where reading facial expressions through the eyes is emphasized, closed eyes in a kissing face signal deep trust and surrender. In Western culture, where the mouth carries more expressive weight, the puckered lips are the focal point. ๐ gives both cultures something to connect with.
In more conservative digital communication cultures (parts of East Asia, Middle East), any kissing emoji between non-family members can feel forward. ๐'s closed eyes and blush make it the most intimate of the kissing faces, which means it's also the most likely to feel inappropriate in cultures with stricter norms around digital affection.
A 2016 study by Sandra Murphy and Polly Dalton at Royal Holloway, University of London, found that visual processing competes with tactile sensitivity. When your brain processes visual input, it reduces your ability to feel touch. Closing your eyes during a kiss lets your brain fully process the physical sensation. ๐ accidentally captures this neuroscience.
Spain. A FIV Magazine analysis of emoji usage found that the kissing emoji accounts for 17.6% of all emoji usage in Spain, more than anywhere else. A 2022 Intercultural Pragmatics WhatsApp study found Spanish speakers close conversations with kissing emojis at roughly triple the rate of German speakers. It tracks with "la bise" greeting culture, where cheek-kissing is the standard hello and goodbye even among acquaintances.
Korean texters pair ๐ with ์ชฝ (jjok), the onomatopoeia for a peck sound, or with ๋ฝ๋ฝ (ppoppo), which is the cute word for kiss. Japanese texters use ใกใ ใฃ (chu), the soft-peck sound common in anime and manga. Both carry aegyo (์ ๊ต) energy โ performative cuteness that matches ๐'s closed-eye, blushing vulnerability better than any other kissing face.
Spain: The Kiss Emoji Capital
The 2022 WhatsApp corpus study tracked this further. Spanish speakers end WhatsApp conversations with a kissing emoji at roughly triple the rate of German speakers. It maps directly onto la bise (or besito) culture: in Spain, two cheek-kisses are the standard hello and goodbye, even between strangers in social settings. The emoji just translates the gesture.
The Skin Tone Paradox
This isn't an oversight. The Unicode Consortium's rule is that skin tones apply only to emojis designated as "emoji modifier bases." Most "people" emojis (๐ง, ๐ง, ๐) qualify. Hand emojis (๐, ๐ค, ๐) qualify. The smiley faces don't. Unicode considers them abstract cartoons rather than depictions of humans. The yellow is a deliberate non-color, picked in 2015 to avoid making pale pink the default.
For ๐ specifically, this has a weird side effect. Every time someone sends ๐, they're sending a cartoon of themselves kissing someone. Not a self-portrait with their actual skin tone. Not a specific person. Just a yellow face with closed eyes, standing in for whoever's sending it. It becomes universal by being nobody.
Aegyo and the K-Pop Kiss
This fits into aegyo (์ ๊ต), the performative cuteness style that runs through K-pop and Korean variety TV. K-pop idols often do a "finger heart" (๐ซฐ) or a closed-eye air kiss while saying ๋ฝ๋ฝ๋ฝ or chu chu~. ๐ is the emoji version of that exact moment: eyes closed, cheeks rosy, slight embarrassment baked in. It translates aegyo more accurately than any of the other kissing faces. ๐ is too confident for aegyo. ๐ is too flat. ๐'s vulnerability is the whole point.
The Soft Emoji Era
You'd expect ๐ to get buried in this shift. It's adjacent to the same feeling space (tender, vulnerable, eyes-not-quite-open) but predates the soft wave by nine years. Except ๐ didn't get buried. Its Google Trends line stayed almost flat from 2020 to 2026, peaking around the general 2022 emoji surge and then settling back into its steady band of 65-75. That's unusual. Most emojis ride a cycle: a viral moment, a peak, a decline. ๐ has no cycle. It's always there, always being reached for by people who want the tender option without the performance.
๐ฅบ is a reaction emoji ("please," "I'm sad"). ๐ is an action emoji ("I'm kissing you"). They live in different lanes. The soft era expanded the room ๐ operates in rather than replacing it.
Search interest
Often confused with
๐ winks, sends a heart outward, and feels confident. ๐ closes its eyes, blushes, and feels tender. ๐ is the kiss you blow across a room. ๐ is the kiss you give up close. ๐ is performative affection. ๐ is felt affection. ๐ is 5-6x more popular because it works in more contexts.
๐ winks, sends a heart outward, and feels confident. ๐ closes its eyes, blushes, and feels tender. ๐ is the kiss you blow across a room. ๐ is the kiss you give up close. ๐ is performative affection. ๐ is felt affection. ๐ is 5-6x more popular because it works in more contexts.
๐ has smiling eyes (fond, happy). ๐ has closed eyes (intimate, surrendered). ๐ reads as a cheerful, friendly kiss. ๐ reads as a tender, romantic one. The eyes tell you the relationship: smiling eyes = friendship, closed eyes = intimacy.
๐ has smiling eyes (fond, happy). ๐ has closed eyes (intimate, surrendered). ๐ reads as a cheerful, friendly kiss. ๐ reads as a tender, romantic one. The eyes tell you the relationship: smiling eyes = friendship, closed eyes = intimacy.
๐ winks and blows a heart outward (confident, performative). ๐ closes its eyes and blushes (tender, vulnerable). ๐ is the kiss you blow across a room. ๐ is the kiss you give up close. ๐ works in many contexts (romantic, friendly, casual). ๐ is specific to genuine intimacy. ๐ is 5-6x more searched because it's more versatile.
๐ is the most intimate (closed eyes, blush, focused inward). ๐ is the most romantically popular (wink, heart, outward). ๐ is the most physically suggestive (lipstick mark). For genuine tenderness, use ๐. For romantic enthusiasm, use ๐. For physical passion, use ๐.
Do's and don'ts
- โUse it for genuine, felt affection with people you're close to
- โUse it as a goodnight sign-off with a partner or family
- โUse it when you want something warmer and more private than ๐
- โUse it to show you're blushing while giving a kiss (the cheeks tell the story)
- โDon't use it with someone you just met (the intimacy presupposes trust)
- โDon't use it at work (any closed-eye kiss emoji crosses professional lines)
- โDon't use it when you mean ๐ (๐ carries more emotional weight)
- โDon't use it sarcastically (its sincerity is unironic)
No. ๐ฅบ, ๐ซถ, and ๐ค occupy the soft-emotion lane, but they're reaction emojis ("I feel this"), while ๐ is an action emoji ("I'm kissing you"). ๐'s Google Trends line has stayed flat from 2020 to 2026 with a steady band of 65-75, which is unusual stability for a pre-2020 emoji. Most emojis rise and fall on meme cycles. ๐ doesn't, because its job is specific and nothing else does it.
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Fun facts
- โข๐ was part of Unicode 6.0 (2010), arriving alongside ๐. The two most romantic kissing faces were standardized together, two years before the platonic ones (๐ and ๐).
- โขA 2016 Royal Holloway study found that visual processing competes with tactile sensitivity. We close our eyes while kissing because our brains can't fully process both seeing and touching simultaneously. ๐ captures this neuroscience accidentally.
- โข๐'s rosy cheeks represent the involuntary blush response, when blood rushes to the face during emotional arousal. Unlike a smile (which can be faked), a blush is a genuine physiological signal. ๐ is the only kissing emoji with this marker of authenticity.
- โขSweetyHigh reports a gender pattern: ๐ from a guy tends to read as a direct romantic gesture, while ๐ from a girl is more likely to be playful and friendly. The same emoji, different default interpretations.
- โข๐ has a cat variant: ๐ฝ Kissing Cat. Same closed-eye tender energy, feline packaging.
- โข๐ cannot take a skin tone modifier. None of the kissing faces can. The Unicode Consortium classifies smiley faces as abstract cartoons rather than human depictions, so they stay permanently yellow. Only explicit people emojis (๐ง, ๐, ๐) accept tones.
- โขIn Spain, the kissing emoji accounts for 17.6% of all emoji usage, making it the country's #1 emoji. Worldwide, the #1 is typically ๐ or โค๏ธ. Spain is the only major country where a kiss wins.
- โขKorean has three different words for a kiss, and ๐ maps to the softest one. ํค์ค (kiseu) is the English-loan adult kiss, ๋ฝ๋ฝ (ppoppo) is the cute peck, and ์ชฝ (jjok) is the onomatopoeia for the sound itself. Fans of K-pop idols pair ์ชฝ with ๐ in captions the way Western fans pair "muah" with ๐.
- โขThe 2022 Royal Holloway eye-closing study wasn't actually about kissing. It tested tactile acuity during a letter-search task. The "we close our eyes when we kiss" framing came from the press release. The underlying mechanism (visual-tactile interference) is real, but the kiss was the cover story.
Common misinterpretations
- โขSending ๐ to someone who isn't that close to you can feel overly forward. The closed eyes presuppose a level of trust and intimacy that might not exist yet. What you mean as warm, they might read as too much too soon.
- โขSome people use ๐ interchangeably with ๐, not realizing the difference in intensity. ๐ (closed eyes, blushing, private) carries more emotional weight than ๐ (winking, heart, outgoing). Swapping one for the other can shift the tone of a message.
- โขIn cultures where digital affection is more reserved, ๐ might feel inappropriate even between close friends. The combination of closed eyes and blush reads as romantic in most contexts, and context doesn't always override cultural norms.
Trivia
For developers
- โข๐ is . Unicode name: KISSING FACE WITH CLOSED EYES. Common shortcodes: (Slack, Discord, GitHub). Part of Unicode 6.0 (2010), unlike ๐ and ๐ which are Unicode 6.1.
- โขWhen building emoji sentiment analysis, ๐ should be weighted as strongly romantic/positive. It's the most intimate of the kissing faces and almost never used in non-affectionate contexts.
Unicode 6.0 in 2010, alongside ๐. The two romantic kissing faces were standardized together, two years before the casual kissing faces (๐ and ๐) in Unicode 6.1 (2012). Romance was prioritized over friendliness.
Kissing faces are locked yellow. The Unicode Consortium only permits skin tone modifiers on emojis it classifies as "emoji modifier bases": explicit people (๐ง), role figures (๐ฎ), and hand gestures (๐, ๐ค). Smiley faces including ๐, ๐, ๐, and ๐ are considered abstract cartoons, not human depictions, so they stay yellow permanently. The choice was deliberate: picking a non-realistic color avoids making any real skin tone the "default."
See the full Emoji Developer Tools guide for regex patterns, encoding helpers, and more.
How to Pick Your Kiss
| Tone | Send | Why | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Goodnight to partner | Intimate, private | ๐ | Closed eyes = settling in |
| Casual flirt with someone new | Public, playful | ๐ | Wink signals lightness |
| Thanking a close friend | Warm, platonic | ๐ | Smiling eyes stay friendly |
| Quick sign-off to coworker | Neutral, safe | ๐ | Least romantic of the four |
| Telling partner you miss them | Tender, private | ๐ | Blush carries real feeling |
| Birthday post on public IG | Performative, outward | ๐ | Reads at a distance |
| Late-night vulnerable text | Intimate, heavy | ๐ | Eyes closed for weight |
| Teasing your partner | Playful, sexy | ๐ | Lipstick = physical intent |
When do you use ๐?
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- Kissing Face with Closed Eyes Emoji (emojipedia.org)
- Why we close our eyes when we kiss (IFLScience) (iflscience.com)
- Sensory overload: kissing with eyes open (Medical Daily) (medicaldaily.com)
- What ๐ means in texting (SweetyHigh) (sweetyhigh.com)
- Cross-cultural kiss emoji study (Intercultural Pragmatics) (degruyterbrill.com)
- Kiss emoji comparison (1000logos.net)
- U+1F61A KISSING FACE WITH CLOSED EYES (codepoints.net)
- Most popular emojis by country (FIV Magazine) (fivmagazine.com)
- Technically white: Emoji skin-tone modifiers as American technoculture (firstmonday.org)
- Korean emoticons and aegyo (90 Day Korean) (90daykorean.com)
- Korean emoticons infographic (Dom and Hyo) (domandhyo.com)
- Gen Z is rejecting the smiley face emoji (Axios) (axios.com)
- Emoji Sentiment Ranking v1.0 (kt.ijs.si)
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